You'll be sorry

Then feel the guilt until you can't do it no more.

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Gonna update my blog while waiting for my hair to dry. So... hello everyone! Hope March is being nice to you so far. It's going pretty well for me so I hope it's the same for you guys :b

Moving on, I wanted to talk about this quite long ago but was just lazy to update plus my friend and I were talking about it in school today so might as well. What I'm gonna talk about is, "Why couples cheat on each other." In my opinion,I think people do it for the thrill. You just feel like you have that "awesomeness" so to speak when you rebel. In your head you're thinking, "I shouldn't be doing this but I'm gonna do it because it's rebellious" Yes, it sounds damn stupid but if you're in that situation, you wouldn't think of it. You'll just go for it yes? And secondly, I think people do it because they're so focused on what they are missing out instead of appreciating their partners. Get what I'm saying? It's true that when you're in a relationship, there will be some restrictions. Some people would think, "If I was single I could probably make out with that hot girl/guy but I'm in a relationship so I can't " and again, we go back to being rebellious. They're so worried about missing out the advantages of being single and forgetting about why they love their partners in the first place. Makes sense to you?

Anyway, after their partner finds out, they'll be like "I'm so sorry baby, I won't do it again (Well obviously you wouldn't unless you're lying) I love you so much! Please don't leave me baby boy/girl etc etc." Well first of all, if you do love your partner so much why did you even cheat on him/her the first place?

"I wasn't thinking straight. I didn't know what the hell I was doing!" 
That's kinda bullshit because you should always think twice before doing anything especially cheating on your loved ones and it also shows that your love for your partner isn't strong enough to overcome the thrill to cheat. When you love someone very much, obviously you wouldn't cheat on them. 

"I was drunk!" 
This excuse is worse than the one I just stated. You were drunk really? First of all you should be mature enough to drink and still stay sober. It also shows you're irresponsible when you drink and don't know how to control your actions. This is like an automatic lose in an argument.

"I'm bored of you." "I don't love you anymore" 
Well fuck you if you say that. How cruel can you be to cheat on him/her, wait for him/her to find out and then tell him/her that you're bored of him/her. (I'm using him/her because I don't wanna be sexist because both guys and girls do cheat as well so give me an A+ for effort) Are you that cruel? If you're bored of someone, just break up with them, don't make the damages worse. And you're an asshole if you tell someone you're bored of them. If you're looking for entertainment in a relationship, go stab yourself in the eye. 

"It's not you, it's me" 

Okay then, what do you mean when you said it's you ? You what? You're not happy? You bloody what? It's a stupid excuse. It can mean so many things. 

"We're not like how we used to be anymore""I'm not happy with our relationship""I was pissed at you"

Sure, go sleep with someone else cause it's gonna solve all the problems you're having with your partner. You genius fucktard (Y) Cheating on your partner is just gonna make your life way harder OBVIOUSLY. lol. If you're mature enough to get into a relationship then you should be mature enough to get out of a relationship (unless you're just one of those despos)

"I wanted to spice up our relationship."

Wait what? Who are you having with the relationship with now? I hope you're in a relationship with the right person because you're sleeping with someone else and not me. If you wanna spice up our relationship with anger, sure go cheat. It'll be damn spiced up when you're done. 

I'm pretty sure there are shit loads of excuses out there but these are one the few I thought about. Basically, think twice before you cheat on someone or do anything else that you shouldn't be doing. If you love that person so damn much, you love that person. Fullstop. All the bullshit after that are just excuses. If someone asks you this, "Will you cheat on your gf/bf/husband/wife?" if you have a pause there then I suggest you go fix whatever problems you have with your partner. You're suppose to have a love so strong until it can overpower the thought of cheating on him/her. That's how it works. Again, this is all based on my opinion (: 

Who am I to you?

Love Rachel*