What do you choose?
okay, enough chit chat and on with it.
As you all know time's passing pretty darn fast. What does that mean? We're growing older, we're closer to death. Basically we're gonna die soon la, haha. So that means what? Less time.
What I've noticed is that, many around aren't happy. Yeah it's pretty normal to be sad but sad all the time? Now there's something wrong. We all have to have balance in life, we would not know joy if we know no pain, yes? We'll have our ups and downs, good and bad ya know. Many say they cannot find happiness again, and I admit, I have said that before. I thought I could never be as happy as I used to be while I was going through something but in the end, I proved myself wrong. I'm now as happy as ever with my life (:
If you can get sad, why is it not possible to get out of it? It is possible. You can choose to be happy, (hence the title) if that's what you want. For example, you're sad in a relationship, you don't feel happy so what do you do? You get out of the relationship. You'll then realise how light you feel because the burden's taken off you. At the end of it, it's your decision whether you wanna be sad and stay in the relationship or leave and go search for your happiness. Yes, it's not as easy as it sounds but I can say it's pretty much worth it you know, being happy again. You can't be sad forever, at some point you have to snap out of that depressing bubble and really live your life. I guess maybe that's why people commit suicide. People don't think about searching for their happiness again, they think they're gonna be sad forever so they think, "might as well leave this place". I believe that everyone out there can be happy, whether is watching a little boy chase a butterfly, or just writing a blog, or working. I guess people come up with excuses because trying to be happy again takes effort and time so people take the easy way, just stay in their pool of tears. Your friends can help and all, hell, I can give your the best therapist in the world to help you get out of your sadness but if you don't wanna be happy, nothing can help you. You need the will to be happy. You need toWANT to be happy again.
In the end, it's really up to you whether you want to search for your happiness again. Do you want to be sad the rest of your life? Well if you do, then.... I guess it's up to you but I guess everyone deep down wants to be happy. I think everyone deserves to be happy in their life. Being happy is a really nice feeling, it's worth all the time and effort honestly. You should give it a try sometimes, sad little ones. There's not enough time to be sad in the world, so might as well use the time you have left to be happy (: Start by smiling (:
Happy Early Christmas y'all!
Love Rachel*
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