Why so desperate?

Maybe more than a few.
Source: google

Hey hey, I'm blogging because I'm just too lazy to do anything else since I've finished almost all of my homework, teehee! Holidays are about to come to end, this sucks. Didn't have much of a holiday in the end anyway, pssh.

So I was scrolling through my twitter to look for something to blog about and yes I've found something to blog about. (See, twitter can inspire you once in a while). As you can see from my title, the word,  desperate.
I'll narrow down to relationship wise. I will say here honestly that I have friends who are desperate for "love", well in their eyes it's love but I guess from what I see, it's more of, "I just need someone to like me so I feel like I'm actually wanted." Yeah, sounds pretty darn mean but this most likely might be the real reason, they just don't want to admit it. They hide away from that fact and continue to believe that they aren't desperate but really, you can see how desperate someone is from what they tweet (lol), from the way to react to the guys/girls they are talking to and etc etc.

I'm not sure how to put it in words but some of the people I know who are desperate are either broken up or just single for too long. If you have just broken up or have been single for a damn long while and you feel that you are not desperate, okay, good for you. (But again, the most desperate ones will definitely admit they aren't desperate at all, hmm? Kidding:b) You see, when you've broken up, you'll feel empty, you feel that a big part of your life has gone missing. I know how it feels because I've gone through it. You need someone to fill in that space, you need someone to love you, to be there to comfort you and stuff like what your ex did and you refuse to wait for someone so long again to be your next partner. So what do you do? You throw yourself at your closest girl/guy friends, you lead them on unintentionally and then bad shit happens because of your act out of desperation. Yes? No?

Also, for people who have been for single for too long and most of your friends are like smooching with their partners around you. You feel the need to have someone as well, you might feel the need to fit in or I don't know, the trend these days are like, "If you have a boyfriend/girlfriend it means that someone actually wants you and if you're single means, nobody wants you." Before I continue on, I will say that I completely oppose to that "trend" because having a partner does not define your status or whatever the hell people call it these days. No, a partner doesn't define anything. Anyway, where was I? Oh, yeah, just wanna fit in and shit, or again, you just wanna feel the love because love is such an amazing feeling and all that bullcrap so the same thing happens. You do whatever it takes for someone to like you and again, it's out of desperation. That's not how you get someone to like you, it's just so terribly wrong.

I honestly find, people finding love out of desperation is disgustiIt's like you're willing to throw your pride and dignity away just to get someone to love you. Then you start doing all sorts of things, like purposely seeking attention, flirting for the wrong reasons, stalking...etc. Really, and when my friends do get desperate, it's just so damn disappointing. It's feelings you're talking about here plus desperation I feel is a selfish act. You're involving other people's feelings as well. You can differentiate between couples who actually like each other and couples who are just plain desperate. Just be more observant and you'll know.
How to not be desperate? Well, simple as that. Patience. If you're they type that takes relationships seriously, then just wait. People will come around. The power is in your hands to act if you want to but be smart, not desperate.

Reminding y'all again, I blog my opinions, so if you do not agree with me, I respect that :) Thanks for reading!

Love Rachel*

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