Live punching bag.

So what will it be?

Long weekend ahead, yay! I impersonated Michelle Yeoh today for some Merdeka quiz thingy at school, I hope I did a good job, what do you all think? I was nervous like crazy ): In the end, I got a trophy and a certificate for it, wooh! (nobody cares, okay) Let's move on with some inspirational shit (hopefully)!

Everyone gets angry, frustrated, moody, so on and so forth. Anything that relates to making you feel like shit basically. So let's say, this morning, your mum scolded you for something you did. She scolds you and nags you on and on about it. For many, this will spoil our day and we just feel so shit because your mum "has ruined your day". Yes? Then you tweet, "Wth la, early in the morning go nag me." "Day ruined, thanks mom." "Spoil my mood only" and whatever else you would tweet. You then go to school all moody and you just hate everyone around you. If someone bugs you when you're moody, what do you do? The usual thing you would do is let it out on them right? "Dude fuck off!" you shout then everyone gets so afraid of you and leave you alone. 

Sounds familiar?

It's obvious right? When you're not in a good mood, you just let it out on everyone and in the end, honestly, nothing is solved. I admit that I've done this a lot last time, I do it less now though because I always tell myself to think twice before taking action. Don't you think it is a selfish act first of all? You take it out on your innocent friend and then who knows because of you, their day might be ruined as well. Secondly, lashing it out at other people won't solve whatever you're facing, yes? Doing this, you might even hurt yourself or others especially when you take it out on people and objects. Some people punch the walls or break things when they are angry then they injured themselves THEN they tweet about how they got hurt and whatever their sob story is. Plus, it gives others a bad impression of yourself. Yeah, you'll be all like, "who gives a shit on what others think? I'm pissed" Well yeah right honey, if you don't care, why then are the majority of us searching for acceptance in life? (okay, off topic). Continuing, people will know you do not have self control, you're easily affected by emotions. This will then affect the decisions they make in the future that will involve you.

If you're really moody, let your whoever know. "I'm feeling like shit today, so please leave me alone." Yes, it raises questions and all, that's the consequences, but it's better than taking it out on people. If you're the type that takes out your emotions on objects, well, take in consideration of what objects you are taking it out on. Scream into your pillow, crush used papers (recycle after that okay? Save the environment. See you're giving back :D ), stress ball and any other ideas. Just shout in the shower, I do that. There was once I got really pissed, I threw my bag at my home's world map photo frame. So if you were to come to my house and look at the world map, you will see there's no glass because I broke it when I was mad. I felt so guilty after and realised my mistake. 

What I can tell you is that, think twice before letting it out. Will it bring you consequences you wouldn't wanna face? Who will you hurt? What will you lose from it? Yes, it's hard to gain self control when all you wanna do is punch everyone but you see, if you can have self control even though you're in this state, you're gonna increase your tolerance level, less stress. When you're moody, calm yourself down, don't let things spoil your day, it's really not worth it. My friend told me this, "Your mood in the morning, sets the mood of your day." Amen brother. So guys, don't do things that will make you regret later because you failed to control yourself. Not good.

Thanks for reading guys! (:

Neglected but...

Love Rachel*