You have no bloody idea how long it took me to come up with something to blog about. Before I start, if you're reading this, I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for reading my blog. It really means a lot to me, seriously. Sometimes I don't know why people read also, interesting meh? :b Okay, who cares. Let's start.
Okay, I'm pretty sure everyone has had a bad experience before. It could be anything like a bad break up, someone has passed away, an accident, friendship problems or anything. I'm not comparing how bad the experiences are because to different people, it could mean differently. So no comparison alright?
Whenever someone has a bad experience, they would most likely say, "I rather die then be this sad" "I don't wanna live anymore" blah blah blah and all sorts of things. It's pretty understandable to act this way after going through shit. It's normal, I admit that I have acted this way before. But at some point of time, we need to learn to move on from this bad experiences. We can sulk about it but there's a time where you have to (favourite line coming up, just saying) tell yourself to get your shit together. Honestly, some people sulk about it for too damn long. In the end, it becomes more of an excuse to not be happy or to gain sympathy. No honey, it does not work that way, alright?
I always tell myself that these shit moments are God's gifts (quoted from one of my friends). You're probably thinking, "Wtf is she thinking? You call getting shit moments God' gift?" I know we have those moments like, "God if you love me so much why did you let me go through this crap... complain complain complain" Well there's a reason behind everything I believe. We go through this moments because they are lessons for us. We're suppose to learn from it, learn from our mistakes. Plus there's a quote that goes,
"Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn.My God do you learn."
Then you may think, "Why the hell am I going through the same damn thing again?" This is because my dear, you have had not learnt your lesson yet. It's like in the exams, you're gonna keep getting the same question wrong if you don't learn it right the first time (but really, would you keep getting the same question wrong? Don't be an idiot, fix that shit up) So in life, you could say it's the same thing. You're gonna keep getting the same lesson until you get that shit right. (If you noticed, I'm off topic)
Back to the topic.
Learn your lesson and move the hell on. No, I did not say it was easy. No one did but you have to in order to be happy. Happiness is a choice so don't say you don't have one. If you're upset about someone who has passed on, think about it. Will the person that passed on be happy seeing you mourning about his/her death your whole life? If I were dead, I sure as hell do not want my family crying about my death their whole life, I want them to just get it over with. Okay la, sulk abit but I don't want them to just be upset for the rest of their lives. As for a bad break up, seriously, you're gonna just cry about it for the rest of your life? Well, you should move on. Don't show your ex, "Oh she/he's super upset without me around. Wow I make such a huge impact on people's life" ego boost ego boost boom boom boom. (yeah, that was sorta unnecessary) There's a reason why you've broken up. Get upset about it (but not for too long) but promise yourself that you will move on.
Give yourself some time to recover from your bad experiences but make sure you learn from it. You don't want to go through the same shit again, would you?
Back to the topic.
Learn your lesson and move the hell on. No, I did not say it was easy. No one did but you have to in order to be happy. Happiness is a choice so don't say you don't have one. If you're upset about someone who has passed on, think about it. Will the person that passed on be happy seeing you mourning about his/her death your whole life? If I were dead, I sure as hell do not want my family crying about my death their whole life, I want them to just get it over with. Okay la, sulk abit but I don't want them to just be upset for the rest of their lives. As for a bad break up, seriously, you're gonna just cry about it for the rest of your life? Well, you should move on. Don't show your ex, "Oh she/he's super upset without me around. Wow I make such a huge impact on people's life" ego boost ego boost boom boom boom. (yeah, that was sorta unnecessary) There's a reason why you've broken up. Get upset about it (but not for too long) but promise yourself that you will move on.
Give yourself some time to recover from your bad experiences but make sure you learn from it. You don't want to go through the same shit again, would you?
Move on.
Love Rachel*
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