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Hello readers! I'm so sorry I haven't posted anything in a long long time, I've really been busy. I won't be posting as often anymore because it's senior year and I have tons of shit to do. But I'll do my best to post shit up when I get super inspired or something :b I hope everyone's doing well and if you're reading this, thank you so so much :) It's nice to know my effort and thirty minutes did not go to waste:b
Alright. I will be talking about insecurities today! Yay! If you didn't notice, yes, my previous post was somewhat about insecurities. The reason why I repeat on it, it's because, you have to admit, insecurities can destroy a person. It really can, so I'm posting this hoping to remind you all and maybe start changing the way you think.
Yes, everyone has insecurities, even people with huge ass egos. We all have a part of us we don't like, or we get teased about it and stuff. Then maybe we start complaining to our loved ones, or friends or whoever you tell your shit to. In my case, I'll be like, "I hate my voice ughhhhh." "My voice sucks, I wanna change it." Yeah my voice is my probably my biggest insecurity. I do complain about it and I'm still not over it. It's freaking hard to get over your insecurity, I understand but you cannot let it consume you. Let's say if I were to complain to my loved one about my voice everyday. It get's annoying doesn't it? My partner tries to console me, I feel better but then I revert back to complaining about it again. At the end of the day, it is NOT your insecurity that will push your partner away but you COMPLAINING about it will be the one pushing them away. (because your partner can't take your whining shit anymore, that's why) Think about it, if your partner didn't like your insecurity, he/she wouldn't even be with you in the first place, amen? Amen. He/She would probably love your insecurity the most. So there, that's one reason for you to stop complaining about it.
Fine, let's say you don't have a loved one. It's cool. How about maybe that one insecurity defines you. If I could change my voice, honestly, I wouldn't. I guess it defines me. Like, "Oh, that's Rachel with her really deep voice." Yep, that's me. HAHAHA. Maybe that's not how you define yourself but maybe other people do and it doesn't always have to be a bad thing right? Maybe other people will like your insecurity, maybe that's their favourite part of you. You never know. One day, there will be someone you will love you for you, yes you, your imperfections, flaws, insecurities etc etc. You come in a package, and if they refuse to accept any part of you then that's their loss.
Yes, everyone has insecurities, even people with huge ass egos. We all have a part of us we don't like, or we get teased about it and stuff. Then maybe we start complaining to our loved ones, or friends or whoever you tell your shit to. In my case, I'll be like, "I hate my voice ughhhhh." "My voice sucks, I wanna change it." Yeah my voice is my probably my biggest insecurity. I do complain about it and I'm still not over it. It's freaking hard to get over your insecurity, I understand but you cannot let it consume you. Let's say if I were to complain to my loved one about my voice everyday. It get's annoying doesn't it? My partner tries to console me, I feel better but then I revert back to complaining about it again. At the end of the day, it is NOT your insecurity that will push your partner away but you COMPLAINING about it will be the one pushing them away. (because your partner can't take your whining shit anymore, that's why) Think about it, if your partner didn't like your insecurity, he/she wouldn't even be with you in the first place, amen? Amen. He/She would probably love your insecurity the most. So there, that's one reason for you to stop complaining about it.
Fine, let's say you don't have a loved one. It's cool. How about maybe that one insecurity defines you. If I could change my voice, honestly, I wouldn't. I guess it defines me. Like, "Oh, that's Rachel with her really deep voice." Yep, that's me. HAHAHA. Maybe that's not how you define yourself but maybe other people do and it doesn't always have to be a bad thing right? Maybe other people will like your insecurity, maybe that's their favourite part of you. You never know. One day, there will be someone you will love you for you, yes you, your imperfections, flaws, insecurities etc etc. You come in a package, and if they refuse to accept any part of you then that's their loss.
We all want something we don't have. That's life. We can't have everything can we? Well, even if we do have everything we want, do you think we'll be permanently happy? No right? See. There's always a part of you, you can be happy about. Don't say you don't have because that is a big ass lie. I'm learning how to slowly get over it myself and complain less about it. Accept compliments. It's okay to be insecure, it's what makes us human. I guess many people think it's WRONG to have insecurities, well, it's not. It makes you, YOU. Don't ever forget :) Now give your self-esteem a +1
Thank you for reading you kind soul. Bless you. *Sprinkles holy water*
Thank you for reading you kind soul. Bless you. *Sprinkles holy water*
Dedicating this post to the guy who's always patient with me when I whine about my insecurities. Thank you for appreciating me, for me :)
Love Rachel*
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