In the water is where I wanna be.
Anyway, like I said yesterday, I'm gonna blog about girl-guy best friends. A lot of girls have guy best friends, it's pretty much normal. There's nothing wrong with it but again, there are complications when you're best friends with the opposite sex. Some people, they become best friends, yeah, seems pretty simple until one of them starts falling for each other. That's where it gets complicated. If you're the one falling for your best friend, you wouldn't know what to do would you? You either tell him/her you like them and hope they feel the same way or you keep quiet about it but fall for them even harder everytime. Let's just say you decide to keep it a secret because you don't wanna ruin your friendship, that's cool but how would you feel in the inside? You would be dying to tell them that you like them and you wanna be with them. You would feel upset inside because your feelings are building up and you fall for them even harder. Now, let's say you've decided to tell them that you like them. Okay what's most likely gonna happen?
A: Your best friend likes you back but what if you guys break up and things get awkward after that? You might lose that friendship you two used to have.
OR
B: Your best friend doesn't like you back and he/she starts drifting away from you. Likely, you'll lose you friendship and again, thing's gonna get awkward.
But that doesn't mean there's no solution to these kind of situations.If you do like your best friend, this is what you should do. Don't make a move unless you're so positively sure that he/she likes you back and you're willing to accept the consequences after that but don't make a move if you're unsure. In fact, you should never make a move if you're unsure about your feelings. You're taking a huge risk there. if you like him/her and don't wanna say anything yet, just distance yourself for a bit and decide what you wanna do about your feelings. Weigh out the pros and cons maybe (: In the end, you still have to decide for yourself on how you want things to turn out. Who knows, maybe you'll have a long lasting relationship together or maybe he/she won't drift off even if you told them about how you felt. You won't know how things will turn out, that's the fun part of life (: Sometimes it sucks, yeah but if it happens, it happens.
Well, I have a guy best friend and things are cool between us (: We've been friends for 13 years, almost 14 now. I'm really grateful to have him and I hope our friendship lasts super long. Hopefully 'til the day we die :b Thanks bud for everything you've helped me with and hope I've been a good best friend to you. I'm dedicating this post to him because he told me to. Am I the bestest friend in the whole damn world or what? Love ya Al!
Everyone look, that's my best friend :D
Hey good lookin' , what's cookin' ;)
Love Rachel*
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